


The George and Norma Simcox Pink Hakama Award, has an interesting little tale behind it.
The intent of the award itself, is to keep alive the memory of two
wonderful people who were great friends of Ryurei Aikido and many
others in the International Aikido community. George Simcox Sensei was the Chief Instructor of the Virginia Ki Society for more than twenty years. Norma was his wonderful wife who, although did not practice Aikido was a great practioner and developer of Ki Development.
The Virginia Ki Society, the Kingston Ki Society and Ryurei Aikido had a very special relationship. With both George Simcox Sensei and Bill Bickford Sensei being especially close friends of one another and of Peter Bussell. (Ryurei Aikido)
In July 2000 Norma Simcox sadly passed away after a strong and brave battle with cancer.


George
Simcox had also had an ongoing fight with cancer for several years and
was starting, after Norma's passing, to seem to start to succumb to it
too.
In September he made plans for an aikido tour around
several US states and to Ontario Canada, culminating with a special
joint seminar with Peter Bussell at Ryurei Aikido in Ottawa..
About a week or so before the commencemnt of that tour George was not
well and emailed to say he would not be able to make it.
I had decided, at the September event, to make a special announcement
to honour the memory of Norma, at the dinner we would have had at that
seminar. Instead all was thrown into disarray with George's
cancellation. I emailed George and told him of my plans and asked for
his approval of it. I then waited and waited for a reply, I thought he
had been offended or something. No, George wrote back to say he had
been too choked up to reply for two days, but he was absolutely
delighted at the proposal
George
Simcox
The Norma Simcox Pink Hakama Award was on its way. It involved the selection of one recipient from each of the three dojos, Virginia, Kingston and Ryurei. The certificates were made and sent to George for his signature. He received them, and then I discovered, he signed them and left immediately afterwards to go to the hospital. George was admitted and just a few days later he too had passed away.
How did this memorial get the name about a Pink Hakama.
Well, now we can get a little lighter.
In our dojo we, as do most dojos, have some characters. One, a talented
woman, used to love to tease the guys about their Hakamas, especially
the macho types. She used to say that when a guy is ready to wear a
Hakama, they should "have" to wear a pink one for the first year.
In August of 2000 we had a relatively macho member who was going to
test for Nidan. The woman in question spoke of the pink hakama and one
day while she and I were driving somewhere she thought it would be a
real laugh to buy some pink fabric and make a miniature hakama to
present to him after his test.
She went home and got busy. It was a great effort and to my surprise I
asked her if she could make three more. We went and got some pink
gingham fabric and she made another three of these little creations.
I must say, that at the time I had no idea why I had asked for more of these Hakamas.

Pink Hakama presentation
Virginia Ki Society
A
couple of weeks later, I awoke suddenly at about 2:00am and it was
clear to me why I wanted the little pink Hakamas. My mind told me of
the idea of the "Norma Simcox Pink Hakama Award."
We would have one for each of the dojos. Virginia Ki Society, Kingston Ki Society and Ryurei Aikido. The award would be for a student in each dojo, as selected by the chief
instructor of that dojo, who had shown the most improvement in their
understanding and demonstrable ability in Ki Development exercises over
the past year.
The Hakamas were to be kept in each dojo
to remind everyone of Norma and her contribution to Ki Development.
From 2001 on the award has been called "The George and Norma Simcox Pink Hakama Award."
Each October, approximately on the anniversary of George Sensei's passing, the years recipient is announced.
It is Ryurei Aikido's hope that this award will continue to be
presented annually for ever, to remember George and Norma and all the
work and support they gave to the Ki Society and Aikido in general. Two
wonderful people who are greatly missed
Year |
Ryurei Aikido |
Kingston Ki Society |
Virginia Ki Society |
2000 |
Rob Cornish |
Denis Burr |
David Huang |
2001 |
Peter Zorzella |
Margaret Barraclough |
Donna Shibacheh |
2002 |
James Chaplin |
No nominee selected |
James Koenig |
2003 |
Catherine Ebardt-Grasshoff |
Kingston Ki Society has |
Mary Kay Belter |
2004 |
No Award this year |
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Chizuko Suzuki |
2005 |
John Graham |
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Maxine Wright |
2006 |
Ofer Wallach |
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Tim Felegie |
2007 |
Galit Karpov |
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Bob Pavese |
2008 |
Oanh Nguyen |
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The Barham
Family |
2009 |
Ninh Nguyen |
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Recipients of
The George and Norma Simcox
Pink Hakama Award